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"Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy. The amount of work is the same."~~~Francesca Reigler

Wednesday, September 1

1960 Something

People in general are moody. Everyone has good days and bad days. The days for Mama were not all that great I am sure. Just being around someone drinking is enough to make a good natured person have a few fits. Women tend to have them. When Aunt Faye ran her new Continential Lincoln into Uncle Andy's car it was just a funny story that was told over the years. Mama was marked crazy from the beginning. Crazy for stress that would bring the most sane person to a breaking point.

I listened to her when the men that drank with Daddy were getting on her nerves. This made me want to do something to help her. I even chased one bum out of one of Daddy's abandoned cars in the yard. This guy slept there often. Daddy I am sure had given him permission. Mama could not stand the thoughts of him letting just anyone stay with us. It was bad enough that every stray from Alabama bringing the whiskey and keeping Daddy from going to work everyday. The times he spent drinking did gradually cause him to loose his very good job.

Loosing it is something that she was bound to do and do often. It did eventually come to a complete breakdown. The doctors at ECM's 400 ward seemed to think she needed mental health treatment. The day she went she had been whipped with a garden hose. It was in the hottest part of the summer. She had been picked on all morning by Daddy, Grandmother and Uncle Keith, because she was not picking up enough of the potatoes that had been dug that morning.

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Shade Tree Mechanics

Shade Tree Mechanics
Working on a car can be dangerous. The car can fall if it is jacked up and fall. With daddy working on anything seemed as if fire was the main danger. Grandmother's house had not been built back long after their fire. We were living in a new brick house, which I thought was a mansion. I drive by there now and am amazed at how small it seems. That night he had pulled the navy blue Dodge Dart he was driving at the time beside the carport. I always got really worried when he tried to do something drunk. He had to, just had to get the car fixed, to go visit Parker. Parker was the local bootlegger. One of the local bootleggers. Lauderdale County was dry. Traveling to Pulaski was really not an option, considering the not so reliable car Daddy had. I could see out the kitchen door as he stood under the hood messing with the breather on the top of the engine. He took it off and was pouring gas into the carburetor. The next thing I knew flames were coming from under the hood of the car. Forget there being an easy way to put the fire out. There was not a water hose hooked up. It was before fire extinguishers were standard in homes. Dirt was the answer at that moment. I saw the fire and him getting sand from the pile that was left in front of the house from the building back of Grandmothers house. The fire was finally put out, but the car was in need of more repairs than before he started.

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